Mean Girls

For the first time ever Meg said that she now understands how Cam and I feel about school.  She has absolutely no desire to go.  I definitely do not blame her.  It has been a long year filled with middle school drama.  Girls can be mean and some more than others.  I believe that most of it revolves around jealousy and boys, but regardless of the reason it isn't fun.  Mary has reminded me several times that it is this way for most 7th and 8th grade girls and that high  school should be a lot better.  I know that she is correct, but I sure haven't enjoyed watching Meg go through it all. Hopefully, the next four years will be drama free.  

Negativity

There have been so many posts on Facebook lately that have been negative that I can barely read anymore.  It seems that all people want to argue about is gay marriage and individual business owner's rights to refuse to serve gay ceremonies.  I have to say that I do not have much of an opinion on any of this.  I try very hard not to judge others or question what God believes is right or wrong.  I know what I believe for me, but it is not my place to force my opinion on others.

Several of the comments caught my eye, however, and I finally asked Doug if he noticed.  He had and wasn't sure what to do either - unfollow someone, post positive comments, argue, etc.  Then this afternoon Parce texted and asked if I had noticed all of the negativity lately.  He was at a loss as to why all of this was showing up lately either.

My cousin, Jeannette, must have noticed as well as she posted several quotes tonight.  My favorite is below.  It states exactly how Doug, Parce and I were feeling.  Glad she shared it.

Endoscope

I met with the gastro surgeon yesterday about my stomach and the amount of pain I have been having.  We know that I suffer from acid reflux, but the medicine, changes of diet and raising my bed have not helped.  He went through the different problems that could be causing my symptoms, but the only way to really find out what is wrong is to do an Endoscope.  It is an outpatient procedure in which a tube will be inserted down my esophagus into my stomach to look to see what the problem is.  He will also leave a small electric transmitter that will be able to monitor my symptoms and from my personal diary be able to track them with my symptoms.  I have to be off of my medicines for a week, so I cannot have the procedure until next Tuesday.

It interferes with ISTEP, but I can't wait.  This has become unbearable.  It is very hard to sleep at night.  The doctor did say that this could all just be stressed related.  At first that really made me upset.  I hate to think that I created this problem by being anxious.  My Mom reminded me, however, that stress would be an easier fix than major surgery.  She is correct.  Plus I have to know for sure and Aunt Vicky will be there as she works in the GI lab.  Endoscope it is then!

Autograph Night

Today on Twitter the "Wawasee Golf" posted that it was autograph night at their match with Fairfield and West Noble.  When we showed up to check on the team, sure enough Jayce and Stephen had been following Cal.  I know the "autograph night" was a joke as did the boys and I am sure that one of his friends made up the twitter account, but the thought that Cal's friends support him enough to show up for a golf match is just incredible to me.

They weren't the only ones in his gallery as Doug and my parents followed along as well.  Cam would have, but by the time we got there he was already on three which is quite a walk from the clubhouse.  It was a great night to be at the course as Cal shot 38 his best round of the season.  He started with three bogeys, which made the end score even better.  Jayce was there to chest bump Cal when he ran in a birdie putt on three and he was first in line for the "autograph."  In all of their excitement they even found a picture of the two of them at a golf tournament in 2010.

We were all proud of Cal.  He put a lot of effort into golf last week and really worked to fix his driver.  I believe he now has the second lowest average in golf matches this season on his team.  That is quite the accomplishment as he has a good team.

While we were there cheering on Cal, Meg was able to support the middle school team.  I loved watching Jared's face light up when he saw her on eighteen.  She walked with him the last two holes and they had a great time.  I don't know if it helped Jared's score, but it gave them stories to tell.  I hope when they are Juniors Meg will show up for autograph night as well.

Cal's Room

Yesterday while Doug was watching Cal's team finish first in a rain, soaked tournament, Cam and I spent the good portion of the day working on Cal's room.  Cam was a huge help as he took everything off of the shelves and dusted them.  I was able to organize it all and put everything back in order.  He also watched Spongebob with me and "blew up" Cal's clothes with his new iPod app.  Meg also helped with the cleaning as she pulled everything out of her bathroom, cleaned shelves and reorganized it.

By this afternoon Doug and I were able to officially say that we had cleaned out Cal's room.  It looks better than it has all winter.  I know he spends a lot of time in his room.  Hopefully, he will keep it clean for at least a couple of days.

Ron and Sara

Sara texted late this morning to see if we were available to go to dinner tonight.  I was thrilled to get her text.  Doug and I do not do a lot with other couples and by far Ron and Sara are our favorites to go to dinner with.  There is always a lot for us to talk about or catch up on.  This time Sara had pictures to share about their trip to Seattle.  I was completely sold on going until I realized that the observation deck at the space needle was not completely enclosed. We also shared some great ideas about weddings, college, surviving high school and overzealous sports parents.  

We tried a new sports bar in downtown Goshen, and then headed to Venturri's for authentic Italian pizza.  The guys enjoyed trying a couple of beers and Sara made her own pizza that was delicious.  By the time dessert arrived we were still sharing ideas about parenting and cleaning out rooms as our children start to move on to their own adventures.  Doug and I both had a lot of fun this evening.  It is nice to have friends that share the same interests and have the same concerns about their own children.  

Friday

This week felt longer than most.  I believe that between the cool weather and the lack of sleep I have been getting due to my stomach issues I was absolutely wiped out by dinner this evening.  We also have been busy every night this week between picking up Brett's new car, piano, soccer, golf, and helping Brett get a sublet.  In addition this is also sewing week at school.  As much as I enjoy doing projects with my students it is physically demanding.

Therefore tonight I decided to take it easy.  I was still able to catch up on bill paying and start laundry.  When Doug offered to begin the cleaning process of Cal's room, I definitely took him up on it.  I also agreed to pay Cameron if he helped.  He was more than willing as he has been eyeing a box of Pokemon cards at Target that he is sure he needs to add to his collection.

The guys were able to take down Brett's bed, clear out the dirty clothes, move the green chair upstairs and recycle all of the plastic bottles in and around Cal's room.  By the time Cal got back from the softball game and Grandma's it was already looking better.  I still have quite a bit to do this weekend, but their help was greatly appreciated.