Hanging Out with My Mom

My mom told me through tears this morning that she was very sad that I was leaving tomorrow.  I felt bad but knew that I couldn't stay.  I had commitments with my own family and would need to head out tomorrow as planned.  I did remind her that she hears from me almost every day and that when I am here, we get to spend way more time together than if I lived in town.  I also added Hoosier to her collection so she remembered that we were always thinking of her.

I did get to spend a lot of time with my mom today. I not only took her along with me to Newcomer's Jewelry in Nappanee, but I also asked her to show me where we lived on Elm Street when I was first born and where her house was when she was growing up.  I really enjoyed the trip down memory lane.  I would have never found our old house.  I was sure that it was in a different location.  Now I will never forget.  I probably would have been able to pick out her childhood home, or at least the area, but I appreciated hearing her talk about her memories from that time period and learning that Aunt Dolly lived just down the street from her family.

Distance can be tough, but I believe that I have navigated it the best that I can.  Doug and I always had plans to move south when our children graduated.  I didn't realize that it would be the day Cameron left for college but knew that it would be sometime within that year.  I miss my family in the Midwest but do enjoy our life in Ocala.  Thankfully, the phone call, texts and frequent travel make it a lot easier.   

Getting a Few Things Done

I arrived in Syracuse yesterday before lunchtime.  I was surprised to see that my parents weren't at home.  They were in Goshen shopping at Walmart.  It was my mom's third time out of the house since she broke her hip in July.  While they were out, I unpacked my car.  There wasn't a lot but enough to keep me busy.  I then left for my haircut at Amanda's.  It was nice to see her and catch up on what she had been up to since I was there a month ago.  It was also very nice to get my haircut as it seems to be growing faster than ever.

Today, I was able to take care of another item on my Indiana to-do list - the eye doctor.  Dr. Caughill is the only doctor that I still visit in the Midwest.  I know I won't be able to see him forever, but I really like him and trust his medical knowledge.  The appointment went well and I should have a new year's supply of contacts delivered next week.  

The last item that I needed to take care of was loading up the Pilot.  I started on that process today.  The car was fairly full from all of the tailgating supplies that we were bringing back from Brett's, but thankfully there was still enough room for Grandma's golf clubs, a wicker basket and a few other memory items that I still had stored at my parents.  After this trip, I should be done traveling to Indiana for a while by vehicle, so I was glad that I was able to fit it all in today.

A Day of Rest

After my late-night trip to the ER last night, we all decided to sleep in until 10 AM yesterday morning. Brett and Karen never knew what happened which was a little bit funny since the last two times I have been in Columbus I have had to call 911 as they slept through the excitement.  Once they got back from mas, the six of us decided to have an early lunch at McAlister‘s. It was really nice to get to spend some time with everyone before they headed out and Doug had to fly back to Florida. I still didn’t feel the greatest but was tremendously better than last night. 

After we said our goodbyes, I dropped Doug off at the Indianapolis airport yesterday afternoon. I was sad to see him go, but thankful that he would return on Thursday night. I next headed to Paula's and enjoyed a wonderful, relaxing afternoon and evening with her. She had just remodeled her back porch and it was gorgeous. They not only had the perfect outdoor sitting space, but a swim spa and hot tub as well. It would be so wonderful to have something like it at our home, but completely impractical for our neighborhood. Paula and I took advantage of her new patio and spent the next eight hours talking about anything and everything. It was so incredibly nice. Gabrielle joined us later in the day and I loved hearing her thoughts on the football game yesterday. We both laughed that I was the only one that wasn't drinking and ended up in the hospital anyway. 

When it grew dark, Paula suggested a local pub for dinner, and I absolutely loved their Beef Manhattan.  I hadn’t eaten very much over the past few days, so the comfort food was perfect for last night. We ended our evening in her living room, finishing up so many conversations. I was sad to go to bed, but tired enough that knew I would fall right to sleep

An Unexpected Trip to the ER

Yesterday was so much fun, but extremely hot.  The temperature on the field was one hundred degrees, and it wasn't much cooler when we got to the stands. I was glad that the shade arrived shortly after halftime on our side, but everyone else baked in the sun for most of the game.  Because of the heat and the fact that IU was dominating in the second half, I wasn't surprised when Cal, Maggie, Nick and Meg decided to skip the fourth quarter and watch the rest of the game at the Vault instead.  Doug and I left early as well but hung out at the tailgate until Brett and Karen arrived.  I was impressed that they made it the entire game.  Cameron arrived just as we were finishing packing up.  We gave him his backpack and said our goodbyes before picking up Cal and Maggie to head back to Columbus. The rest of the night was a quite one as we were all exhausted from such a busy day.

At 1:30 a.m. this morning, I woke up with a horrible pain in my left shin.  I wasn't too worried at first as I had had that happen before and ice always helped.  By the time I got back to bed from grabbing an ice pack from the freezier, the pain had traveled to my arms, chest and back.  It felt as though someone was squeezing me.  It was hard to breathe so I got out my pulse/ox finger monitor and was concerned that my heart rate was at 122.  I waited a few seconds to see if it would go down.  Instead, my oxygen level dropped to 85 and my jaw started hurting.  I called 911 and woke Doug up.  They sent an ambulance right away and Doug had Maggie come in and check on me.  I was definitely scared that I was having a heart attack.  

EMS arrived relatively quickly and put an EKG monitor on me.  My concern grew even more when they said that it was abnormal and they were taking me to the hospital.  Cal, Maggie and Doug all followed behind and over the next few hours I was run through a battery of tests.  We were all surprised that they did not start fluids right away especially since it was hard for them to find a vein to draw blood.  We all assumed that it was dehydration and were frustrated that they didn't just treat me for that.  Thankfully, they did not.  The blood work showed that I had extremely low potassium.  Extra fluid could have made it drop even lower.  They gave me double the dose of potassium that I normally take, and I soon felt a little better. 

The ER doctor really wanted me to stay at the hospital for a few days and do a stress test.  Since I wasn't in immediate danger, Doug and I decided to go ahead and leave once we knew the medicine had worked.  I definitely plan to go to see Dr. Aich when I get back to Florida.  I trust her and I know that she will take it seriously.  It was definitely a scary situation and not something that I will forget for quite some time.  

A Special Game

I didn't think that any football game that I was at in person would top last year's IU vs. UCLA game in which Cameron was introduced as an SAB director on the field.  It was such a special day.  We not only got to tailgate with Cal, Maggie, Brett, Karen, Cameron and Parce's family, but also got to be on the field with Cameron while he was honored.  To make the game even more special we were part of the Indiana flag ceremony and were front row eyewitnesses to the opening drive pick six by Aiden Fisher.  

As wonderful as that day was, nothing compared to this year's event as our entire family chose to come and support Cameron on his big day on the IU field.  Doug and I both had so much fun at the tailgate with all of our children, their significant others and Gabrielle joining our family gathering.  There wasn't any pick six to start the game, but Cal, Doug and I all got to join Cameron in the Indiana flag ceremony and on the goal line when he was introduced once again.  It was incredibly special knowing that our entire family was in attendance.  As we walked out of the weight room, Cal put his arm around Doug and said, "End of an era."  I almost sobbed when I heard that.  I appreciate all of my family being there as this will be a memory for me that I will never forget.  For that I am eternally grateful.

A Wonderful Day in Bloomington

After driving all afternoon and most of the evening yesterday, Doug and I were extremely thankful for a relaxing day in Southern Indiana.  Since both Karen and Brett had to work, we decided to leave as soon as we got up to stay out of their way.  Our first stop was Walmart where we picked up supplies for the tomorrow's tailgate and then were off to Bloomington.  Doug and I spent our morning walking around campus, checking out the shops on Kirkwood, buying a few vinyls at the record store and having an early lunch at Uptown Cafe.  We had never been and all of our children raved about it.  I was expecting breakfast food since it was a cafe, but instead found a menu filled with jambalaya type dishes.  Doug chose red beans and rice while I picked the hummus plater.  Both were delicious.  We found a friend to enjoy our day with us, and everyone loved the picture of Doug's new lunch buddy, Hoosier the Bison.

After lunch, we picked up Meg and Nick at The Graduate.  They had arrived earlier in the day and were looking forward to an afternoon at Oliver Winery.  Cameron got off work early so that he and Cora could join us as well.  The five of them had a lot of fun trying different wines while I enjoyed my chocolate torte dessert. We had a few bees join our table but kept them away from the wine with coasters on the glasses.  The funniest part was the stink bug that seemed to love Nick.  While we were there, we listed to the trivia questions and got some great pictures of Hoosier before it rained.

Doug and I returned to Columbus after we dropped everyone off in Bloomington.  Gabrielle arrived shortly after we left and joined Nick, Meg and Cameron at the bars this evening.  While Cal and Meg were debating Social Cantina vs. Hacienda in the group chat again tonight, Brett, Karen, Doug and I went to Chicago Pizza for dinner.  The food was good and we enjoyed the conversation.  We spent the rest of the night playing Ticket to Ride Germany before heading to bed in anticipation of our early morning wake up call.  

A Surprise Visit

On my way to Charlotte yesterday, it dawned on me that the majority of the drive was through South Carolina. I had just assumed it was through North Carolina before I left. Once I realize this, I thought to myself, "Why didn’t I contact my cousin Billy to see if he could meet up?" I hadn’t even considered seeing him because I was focused on going to North Carolina and knew that my cousin LaMarr was too far away in Raleigh. At one of my stops, I even looked up my cousin Billy’s address. I couldn’t believe he was only 45 minutes from Doug‘s hotel. I started panic texting him right away to let him know that I had screwed up. I hadn’t given him much lead time, but that I was really hoping to see him. I heard back from Billy right away that he was busy last night with class. I was bummed but said "Hey, if you’re free for breakfast, I’ll be there."

Thankfully, Billy was free this morning. He even drove the 45 minutes to Charlotte to meet me at First Watch near our hotel. He brought his girlfriend so I could meet her for the first time as well, and we spent the next two hours catching up just like we had seen each other last week. It was so much fun, and I was so thankful for his visit. They really wanted to see Doug, but we had to get on the road as soon as the conference was over so that we can make it to Brett‘s tonight. They understood and since I found out how easy it was to drive up to see him or meet him halfway in Savannah, we made plans to do it again sooner rather than later.

On the drive to Indiana, I sent this picture to my mom, Aunt Jan, and Aunt Vicky along with the message "I hope that your breakfast partner was as awesome as mine." They were absolutely flabbergasted. They couldn’t believe it and were so happy that the two of us could meet. Billy never had any siblings and I was an only child after the age of eight. The time we spent together in our youth is so precious to both of us. I don't know if I appreciated it then, but I am incredibly thankful for that relationship now.