An Early Birthday Celebration

For Christmas, Maggie gave us a gift certificate to the World Equestrian Center. It was valid at any of their restaurants, and we decided that we would save it for a special occasion. I had suggested Mother’s Day or Father’s Day, but we ended up celebrating both of those holidays at Disney World, leaving tonight as the perfect time to use it for an early birthday celebration for Doug’s 56th.

I checked Open Table for restaurants at the WEC that were available this evening and I was surprised to see that they had a new restaurant cleverly named The Red Pony which looked like it had the perfect menu for both Doug and I. I quickly made a reservation, and we left the house this evening at 4:30 ready to try out this highly rated venue.

There was some confusion getting to the restaurant as Apple Maps sent us to The Yellow Pony instead. Thankfully, we had left early enough to arrive just in time for our 5 o’clock reservation. The restaurant was appropriately themed with paintings of horses everywhere. Some were characterizations of horse and others were of famous animals from the WEC‘S glory days of horse showmanship. We were pleased to see that our table was perfectly placed by the window, and our server was absolutely wonderful.

After looking through the drink menu, I picked one called The Pink Pony Club which honored the famous Chappell Roan song well by being one of the most delicious drinks that I have ever had. Dinner was equally wonderful with amazing dishes, and lots of fun conversation. The highlight of the evening was definitely dessert. When I made the reservation on OpenTable, it asked if we were celebrating a special occasion. I put down Doug’s birthday without even thinking about it. I was so glad as the wait staff went out of their way to celebrate Doug’s 56th birthday with us complete with a birthday card and a lighted firework on top of Doug's s’mores cheesecake. We may have been a day early for the celebration, but that didn’t matter to us. It was a wonderful night and one that we will not forget for quite some time.

VRBO Disaster

When we got Morgan's wedding announcement, I decided that I would go ahead and book our hotel rooms even though I wasn't quite sure if all of our family could make it. With the wedding happening on a Friday, Nick starting a new job, Brett and Karen talking about having children and Cameron unsure of his future after graduation, it was definitely hard to plan ten months out. Even so, I thought that it wouldn't hurt to go ahead and book rooms for all of us knowing that I would be able to cancel some of them if need be.  

Even though I looked for lodging as soon as I got the announcement, I wasn't able to find enough rooms for our family at the preferred hotel.  The three rooms that were available had a no cancellation policy which did not work for us.  Unfortunately, there weren't a lot of other hotel choices in the area with open rooms either. Plus, those hotels were all north of the venue meaning those in our family that were arriving on the wedding day would have to drive even further north to change before the ceremony.

Hearing that I had no luck with the hotels, Cal suggested that I try VRBO.  We had never stayed in one before but knew a lot of people who had.  Nick helped me with the website and soon I found a five-bedroom house fifteen minutes from the wedding venue that would be perfect for us or so I thought.  Shortly after booking, the nightmare began.  VRBO cancelled my booking due to a payment error on their end.  Even so the owner of the rental went ahead and charged me a $375 deposit anyway which meant that VRBO wouldn't guarantee the stay.  It was like renting from a random person which made all of us uncomfortable.  I emailed the owner right away and was assured that I would be refunded immediately which never happened.

Two weeks later, I am still trying to get my money back.  I have heard nothing back from the owner and VRBO said that there isn't anything that they can do about it.  Thankfully, I was able to file a claim with my credit card company and have all of the email messages to help back my case.  The other good news is that I found a Hampton Inn about twenty-five minutes south of the wedding where we can all stay.  Even better, I can cancel up until the night before meaning that no one has to decide today and I can get my money back if something happens.  Needless to say, I have decided that VRBO and Airbnb aren't for me and plan on staying with the Hilton chain from here on out.  

Cleaning Grout is Not For the Weak

Several months ago, I bought a steam cleaner to use on our glass shower doors.  I could clean the water spots off of them without it, but it took a lot of work.  I saw a reel that suggested using a steam cleaner, so after more research, I thought I'd try it.  It worked well and did cut down on the amount of time it took to clean the shower doors.

While I was getting the steamer ready to use, I realized that it had a brush for grout cleaning.  I have a ton of tile in my house and although I kept the floors clean, I knew that the grout had not been thoroughly scrubbed since we moved in three years ago.  My handyman suggested using Stanley Steamer to do it, but once I saw the quote for $360, I decided to find a way to do it myself with my new steam cleaner.

I first tried the cleaner on the front porch, and it made a big difference. Every week since then, I put on my to-do list, "clean bathroom grout," but something got in the way.  Finally last May, I was ready to work on the bathroom tile when I got an email that the attachments were being recalled because they would slip off easily causing burns.  I knew from experience that they were right and waited for the new parts to arrive.

Today was the day that I got the steam cleaner out and started on the bathroom tile.  It took a lot of work and way more time that I thought that it would, but they looked a hundred times better in the end.  After all of that work, I decided that I couldn't do the rest of the tile in the house with just the steam cleaner and started looking at grout brushes.  I hope it makes the job even easier.  No matter what, it was nice to know that I had come up with a solution for several hundred dollars less than Stanley Steemer.  I would much rather but the elbow grease in at home and use that money for our trip to the Midwest later this month.

We Don't Have to Overshare

When we found out definitively that Doug had Parkinson’s, I made a commitment to prioritize his health. I also made a commitment not to make this our entire life. It didn’t need to be everything we talked about or everything we did. It wasn’t because I was embarrassed by the diagnosis or that I didn’t believe it, but because I wanted to protect our mental health. I knew that we had to get back to our life. Doug‘s neurologist at Mayo Clinic told us that he could be in this stage for quite some time.  Thus, talking about it constantly, especially to other people, didn’t make a lot of sense. I knew that it would only make me worry more about the future.

Knowing that I didn't want Parkinson's to be the main topic of every one of my conversations, I didn't even mention Doug's diagnosis when I went out with Robbi and her friend Barbara today for lunch at Carrabba‘s. Instead, I talked about my frustration with finding a place for all our family to stay next summer for wedding. I asked them about their experience with VRBO.  We talked about CCW and even things as simple as what temperature to keep our air-conditioning on during the hot summer months in Florida. It was nice to just hang out and feel like a normal person not the wife of somebody with a neurological progressive disorder.

I am glad I figured out several years ago that I have control over the topics that I chose to share.  Our life will definitely be changed by Parkinson’s, but it doesn’t have to change today.  With so many positive things going on in our life there is no need to dwell on the hardships.  

A New Windshield and A New Problem

When Doug was at the Honda dealer getting his oil changed and his brake fluid replenished recently, they met with him about replacing his windshield.  There were a few chips in it, but since it didn't hinder Doug from seeing out the front window, he wasn't too worried about it.  The representative from Auto Glass explained that in Florida we pay through our insurance for windshield replacement free of cost.  The premium is higher, but we could technically replace the windshield every week if needed without our insurance rate going up.  When Doug heard that, he decided to go ahead and replace it.  Auto Glass helped him file the claim with State Farm and he set the date for replacement last week.

Auto Glass was on time and replaced the windshield quickly.  Doug didn't drive it much over the weekend, but when he did, he had no problems.  On Sunday, he left for Meg's and a strange message appeared on his dashboard. His cruise control also stopped working.  We found out later that it was because the camera attached to the top of the windshield was no longer calibrated correctly.  Since this was guaranteed with Auto Glass, we called them right away.  They made an appointment to come out and fix it correctly.  

Friday was the appointment and all seemed to go well until the cruise control stopped working again on Doug's trip to Orlando last night.  Thankfully, he has learned how to drive without the cruise control although it is a slower process since he has to take his foot on and off the gas pedal to keep his leg from tremoring on the drive.  Since it stopped working the second time, Auto Glass agree to replace the new windshield as well.  Fingers crossed that it will work the next time.  I don't know if we have a lot of faith in them, but hopefully, there will be no problems with the next windshield.  

Uptown Cheapskate

Meg, Doug, and I went to McAlister‘s after mass today. Before we headed into the restaurant, Meg stopped in at a new thrift store that we had been to a couple of times called Uptown Cheapskate. She had a bag of clothes that she wanted to sell, and I added couple of things of Cameron’s that he was interested in getting rid of as well. All of them were in nice shape, but we weren’t really sure how the process worked for reselling at the thrift store.

The three of us ate lunch while they were checking our clothes. Meg went back in afterward to do a little shopping, and I got a text shortly afterward saying that they were done sorting our clothes. We were both surprised to see that they had given us $21 for seven items, including one of Cameron shirts. We thought that was a great deal as it was a lot more than we could sell them for the garage sale. They gave us back what didn’t sell which we earmarked for eBay. As an added bonus, Meg found a matching overnight bag to her Vera Bradley backpack. It was a great price and we both walked out of the store extremely happy.

Meg's Visit

With Nick in Ohio for training this month, Meg decided to come out tonight to hang out with us.  She had gone over to a friend's last night and was ready for a relaxing evening in Ocala.  Doug made bruschetta for dinner, and I had a lemon bundt cake ready for dessert.  Phil stopped by later in the evening and we all moved out on the back patio to watch soccer.  Meg quizzed Phil on his thoughts about Olivia Rodrigo, and I questioned him on why he would ask which Grandpa threw out the SNES game system.  Overall, it was a wonderful evening at home, and I was very thankful that Meg made the time to come out.  I know that she has been very busy with work, so it was very appreciated.