Once we got everything unloaded from our shopping trip, Meg spent the rest of her day packing for trip, doing some of her homework and cleaning her room. She was excited to leave for Bloomington and I didn't blame her. Their county's low COVID-19 rates, social distancing measures and mask requirements allow for her and Nick to get out more than they can here. It also gives her some independence. We will miss her, but are glad that they were able to get away for a few days.
Tuesday, June 30, 2020
Back to Bloomington
Since Nick only had to work two days this week, he and Meg decided to spend the rest of it in Bloomington. Brett was glad to host them once again and they left tonight around 6 p.m. Before she headed out Meg and I spent the morning at the grocery store. We decided to try Menards as well as we wanted to buy a few household items that weren't available at Martin's. We were impressed with how safe we felt while shopping in the hardware store. Everyone was required to wear a mask and the aisles were large enough that we could easily social distance. They also had items priced well below what we could buy online or at the grocery store.
Monday, June 29, 2020
It's All About the Numbers
Today Elkhart County passed a mandate that all residents have to wear a mask while in public. I had been wondering when this would happen and was relieved that the state and county finally decided to take matters into their own hands. Both Elkhart General and Goshen General Hospitals had come close to reaching full capacity in their ICU units and the amount of people testing positive in the county had continued to climb topping out at 20%.
With Elkhart County a mainstay in the Heinisch family through Doug's work, Cam's school and both Meg and Cam's friends predominantly living in that area, the out of control rise of positive COVID-19 tests had become a daily topic in our home. It had altered what we did and where we were went. Throughout the stress of it all, I just couldn't understand the laissez faire attitude of those living in the county. I also could not believe the negative responses that appeared today in the news. What did they think would happen when the numbers continued to rise? The state's goal was to be below a 5% positivity rate and for the last week this was an impossible goal to reach since Elkhart County was 15 to 20% of Indiana's daily total.
I remembered all of the negative posts on social media when St. Joseph county enacted a mask mandate. Several citizens stated that they would be doing all of their shopping in Elkhart County since a mask was not required. Now six weeks later St. Joe is only at a 7.1% positive rate, compared to Elkhart's which is close to double at 14.1%. St. Joe also has had 1200 less cases than its neighboring couny, even though their county has over 60,000 more residents than Elkhart.
I didn't even have to look at the totals between Elkhart and St. Josephy counties to understand the importance of mask wearing in slowing the spread of the Coronavirus. In Bloomington the pandemic has been taken seriously since the beginning of the outbreak. Masks were required at Brett's work before the stay at home order was even announced. Both Meg and Brett have told us that social distancing, outdoor eating, closing of public pools, reducing the capacity of social gatherings, increased sanitary measurments at the bars and businesses requiring mask use has become the norm in Monroe County. Because of that, their positive COVID-19 rate has remained at about 3% during the past four months. In contrast Kosicusko County has seen our positive rate rise to close to 10% during the same time frame. We also have 150 more individual COVID-19 cases even though Monroe County is almost double our size with 70,000 more residents. It doesn't take a math scholar to look at the numbers and realize that COVID-19 could become a thing of the past, if only people would follow the guidelines. All of us want life to return to normal, but it isn't fair that only some citizens have to follow the rules. None of the changes that Monroe County made would alter much of our lifestyle and that would enable all of us to enjoy the benefits of living in a healthy community.
With Elkhart County a mainstay in the Heinisch family through Doug's work, Cam's school and both Meg and Cam's friends predominantly living in that area, the out of control rise of positive COVID-19 tests had become a daily topic in our home. It had altered what we did and where we were went. Throughout the stress of it all, I just couldn't understand the laissez faire attitude of those living in the county. I also could not believe the negative responses that appeared today in the news. What did they think would happen when the numbers continued to rise? The state's goal was to be below a 5% positivity rate and for the last week this was an impossible goal to reach since Elkhart County was 15 to 20% of Indiana's daily total.
I remembered all of the negative posts on social media when St. Joseph county enacted a mask mandate. Several citizens stated that they would be doing all of their shopping in Elkhart County since a mask was not required. Now six weeks later St. Joe is only at a 7.1% positive rate, compared to Elkhart's which is close to double at 14.1%. St. Joe also has had 1200 less cases than its neighboring couny, even though their county has over 60,000 more residents than Elkhart.
I didn't even have to look at the totals between Elkhart and St. Josephy counties to understand the importance of mask wearing in slowing the spread of the Coronavirus. In Bloomington the pandemic has been taken seriously since the beginning of the outbreak. Masks were required at Brett's work before the stay at home order was even announced. Both Meg and Brett have told us that social distancing, outdoor eating, closing of public pools, reducing the capacity of social gatherings, increased sanitary measurments at the bars and businesses requiring mask use has become the norm in Monroe County. Because of that, their positive COVID-19 rate has remained at about 3% during the past four months. In contrast Kosicusko County has seen our positive rate rise to close to 10% during the same time frame. We also have 150 more individual COVID-19 cases even though Monroe County is almost double our size with 70,000 more residents. It doesn't take a math scholar to look at the numbers and realize that COVID-19 could become a thing of the past, if only people would follow the guidelines. All of us want life to return to normal, but it isn't fair that only some citizens have to follow the rules. None of the changes that Monroe County made would alter much of our lifestyle and that would enable all of us to enjoy the benefits of living in a healthy community.
Sunday, June 28, 2020
Starting to Heat Up
Today was definitely the hottest one of the week. Thankfully, we have still been able to keep the house cool without running the air conditioner. In fact I believe that everyone has gotten used to it. I spend time during the day keeping the lights off, putting fans in the windows and alternating between being outside in the shade and inside when the sun's too hot on the back deck. Doug has also come up with meals that he can grill and ones that he can cook in the crockpot outback. Cam and Cal have used the basement more during the heat of the day as it has its own natural cooling system. Even the guniea pigs have found new homes down there when the temperature gets too hot for them.
It has worked well for us and we have enjoyed the fresh, clean air. Doug and I grew up without air conditioning and never had it at IU, so it hasn't been much of an adjustment for us. Unfortunately, that may change as the forecast has called for at least two weeks of hot, humid temperatures starting tomorrow. Thus, we may have to turn on the air conditioning for part of the day. Neither Doug nor I are completely sure that it even works as we haven't run it since last August. My plan is to buy a new filter and try it out this week. It it doesn't than maybe we'll all be taking a turn in the basement for awhile.
It has worked well for us and we have enjoyed the fresh, clean air. Doug and I grew up without air conditioning and never had it at IU, so it hasn't been much of an adjustment for us. Unfortunately, that may change as the forecast has called for at least two weeks of hot, humid temperatures starting tomorrow. Thus, we may have to turn on the air conditioning for part of the day. Neither Doug nor I are completely sure that it even works as we haven't run it since last August. My plan is to buy a new filter and try it out this week. It it doesn't than maybe we'll all be taking a turn in the basement for awhile.
Saturday, June 27, 2020
A Quiet Saturday Night
It was a quiet day for all of us. Cam decided to take a break from golf since Saturdays at Maxwelton have become quite crowded. He was also still feeling the effects of walking thirty-six holes yesterday. He spent his time at home watching Spongebob, playing Minecraft and taking on Cal and Doug at badminton.
Meg was happy to have fnished her homework last night giving her more freetime than she had had in quite awhile. After dinner Rachael and Alex joined she and Nick at our house for a late night movie on the "big screen." It took them awhile to find one that they were interested in watching. In the end, however, they all enjoyed Back to the Future and made plans to watch Princess and the Frog next time.
Cal worked for the majority of the day at Tippy and then spent the afternoon at Hannah-Marie's. He thought that he had plans with friends tonight, but that didn't work out. He played golf instead and then beat Grandma and Grandpa at Rummikub. Brett called from Andrew's this evening. They were enjoying the night, catching up on the activities of their week. Doug and I both enjoyed our day. We were able to take a walk, finish a few small projects and play several rounds of Ticket to Ride. Overall, it was a wonderful way to spend a Saturday.
Meg was happy to have fnished her homework last night giving her more freetime than she had had in quite awhile. After dinner Rachael and Alex joined she and Nick at our house for a late night movie on the "big screen." It took them awhile to find one that they were interested in watching. In the end, however, they all enjoyed Back to the Future and made plans to watch Princess and the Frog next time.
Cal worked for the majority of the day at Tippy and then spent the afternoon at Hannah-Marie's. He thought that he had plans with friends tonight, but that didn't work out. He played golf instead and then beat Grandma and Grandpa at Rummikub. Brett called from Andrew's this evening. They were enjoying the night, catching up on the activities of their week. Doug and I both enjoyed our day. We were able to take a walk, finish a few small projects and play several rounds of Ticket to Ride. Overall, it was a wonderful way to spend a Saturday.
Friday, June 26, 2020
Maple Crest
Today was Cameron's second golf tournament of the summer season. Being that it was played at Maplecrest in Goshen, it was a lot easier to get to for all of us. I dropped him off at 9 a.m. so he could putt before his 9:39 tee time. Maplecrest has been known for his fast greens, so he was thankful for the practice. Grandma and Grandpa chose to follow along for the entire eighteen holes while Meg and I thought it would be best to only watch the back nine. Doug was even able to catch a few holes while on his lunch break.
Overall, Cameron was extremely pleased with his round of 82 finishing tied for eighth on the day. The front nine provided the most challenge for him as he finished with two double bogeys on both eight and nine and ended up with a score of 44. We were happy to see him rebound with a 38 on the back complete with back to back birdies. In all honesty Cameron's score was not the most important part of the day. We were actually extremely glad that he had the opportunity to play and that he was pleased with his round. Missing out on his Freshmen golf season was disappointing for Cameron. Having the Indiana Junior tournaments to participate in has made that a little easier.
Overall, Cameron was extremely pleased with his round of 82 finishing tied for eighth on the day. The front nine provided the most challenge for him as he finished with two double bogeys on both eight and nine and ended up with a score of 44. We were happy to see him rebound with a 38 on the back complete with back to back birdies. In all honesty Cameron's score was not the most important part of the day. We were actually extremely glad that he had the opportunity to play and that he was pleased with his round. Missing out on his Freshmen golf season was disappointing for Cameron. Having the Indiana Junior tournaments to participate in has made that a little easier.
Thursday, June 25, 2020
We Have Adjusted
Doug let us know tonight that the salary reduction announced at work in April would continue indefinitely. It was originally hoped that this loss in wages would only last three months, but unfortunately that will not be the case. None of us were surprised by the news. Although the economy has seen some improvement, it's definitely not what it was in February of this year. We have survived so far on less money and had already budgeted for our fiscal year with the idea that he may not receive an increase or bonus until next summer. It will mean that we have to take some money out of our home equity line to pay for Cam's 529 plan. We will also have to reduce our Christmas budget and cut our vacation money.
Thankfully, we have gotten used to spending less and aren't planning on eating out or going on trips (except to Bloomington) until all of this is over. Thus, a reduction in wages won't affect our short term plans. I realize that this may not be the same for others and for an end to the pandemic soon.
Wednesday, June 24, 2020
Hanging Out with Friends While Social Distancing
It's been challenging for Cameron and Meg to find friends to hang out with and still stay inside the social distance parameters required to avoid COVID-19. Meg had a few friends that she had wanted to do something with this week, but one was sick, another grounded, a third never texted back and the fourth one had plans with her sister. She was disapponted, but was glad that Nick was still available. He had been busy with work and an online Physics class, but he and Meg were still able to eat dinner with his family, clean out his room and walk Millie last night.
While Meg was at Nick's, I ran Cameron over to Bailey's. They hadn't been able to connect in a couple of weeks, but were able to make time for a bonfire at her house last night. They enjoyed hanging out and jumping on the trampoline. We appreciated Nick and Meg picking him up, therefore saving us an additional trip to Goshen. The pandemic has altered how much Cam and Meg have been able to get together with friends, but we were thankful that they were able to get out of the house and have some fun this week.
While Meg was at Nick's, I ran Cameron over to Bailey's. They hadn't been able to connect in a couple of weeks, but were able to make time for a bonfire at her house last night. They enjoyed hanging out and jumping on the trampoline. We appreciated Nick and Meg picking him up, therefore saving us an additional trip to Goshen. The pandemic has altered how much Cam and Meg have been able to get together with friends, but we were thankful that they were able to get out of the house and have some fun this week.
Tuesday, June 23, 2020
Summer Session Part 2
Meg came home in March to find herself finishing her Freshmen year with online classes. She really missed the classroom and direct interaction with her instructors. Several of her classes became more challenging because of the new format. Others almost became a joke filled with busy work. She did her best, however, given the circumstances and proudly finished with a 3.65 grade point average.
Since Meg wasn't able to work this summer due to the pandemic, we encouraged her to take two more classes. As Bloomington campus was closed, more classes were offered online through IU than in years past. Thus, Meg was able to complete a business composition class required for her major and take a history class. Summer session one went well for her. She had grown accustomed to the online format and the professors were better prepared for it as well. She didn't love her business class like she thought that she would. Cal had told her it was an easy A. Meg, however, was taking the class with the author of the textbook who had higher grading expectations than Cal's teacher did. She put a lot of time into the class and fortunately was placed with a hardworking group for her final project. She didn't receive the A+ that Cal did, but her group won the case conference challenge. She was extremely proud of that.
Meg's second class was Dylan, Elvis and Postwar America. She really enjoyed the topics that were assigned. She and I discussed McCarthyism, the Presley family's move to Memphis, sexuality in the 1950s and the Civil Rights Movement. We even watched Guess Who's Coming to Dinner together as her final project for that class. We were proud to see that she finished with an A+ in the class. Meg has one more class to take this summer, The New Testament. Thankfully, the assignments seem to be more on par with her Postwar America class. She and I are both looking forward to the topics that will be discussed in her new class. Continuing her education wasn't quite what she was interested in doing this summer, but overall it has worked out well for her and will definitely help her in the long run.
Since Meg wasn't able to work this summer due to the pandemic, we encouraged her to take two more classes. As Bloomington campus was closed, more classes were offered online through IU than in years past. Thus, Meg was able to complete a business composition class required for her major and take a history class. Summer session one went well for her. She had grown accustomed to the online format and the professors were better prepared for it as well. She didn't love her business class like she thought that she would. Cal had told her it was an easy A. Meg, however, was taking the class with the author of the textbook who had higher grading expectations than Cal's teacher did. She put a lot of time into the class and fortunately was placed with a hardworking group for her final project. She didn't receive the A+ that Cal did, but her group won the case conference challenge. She was extremely proud of that.
Meg's second class was Dylan, Elvis and Postwar America. She really enjoyed the topics that were assigned. She and I discussed McCarthyism, the Presley family's move to Memphis, sexuality in the 1950s and the Civil Rights Movement. We even watched Guess Who's Coming to Dinner together as her final project for that class. We were proud to see that she finished with an A+ in the class. Meg has one more class to take this summer, The New Testament. Thankfully, the assignments seem to be more on par with her Postwar America class. She and I are both looking forward to the topics that will be discussed in her new class. Continuing her education wasn't quite what she was interested in doing this summer, but overall it has worked out well for her and will definitely help her in the long run.
Monday, June 22, 2020
Harry Potter and the Cursed Child
Several years ago we took Meg and Cam to the midnight release of Harry Potter and the Cursed Child. Although it wasn't a JK Rowling book, it was based on her famed series and left off where number seven ended. Meg, Cam and Cal all read it immediately that summer, but I waited. I wanted to reread the entire Harry Potter series before I tackled the new book. It took me longer than I had anticipated, but the stay at home order gave me time to finally reach my goal. Thus, I was able to start Harry Potter and the Cursed Child at the end of May.
I was excited when I first started reading the new story, but after the first forty pages I thought about putting it down for something else. The son of Harry Potter spent the first few chapters feeling incredibly sorry for himself. It wasn't much fun to read page after page of him whining. Thankfully, the book got a lot better and soon I found myself unable to put it down, finishing the last 140 pages all in one night. The story was an intriguing one with Harry and Draco's sons using an illegal time turner to go back to the TriWizard tournament to try and save Cedric Diggory who was killed in book 4, The Goblet of Fire. Their actions never saved the intended, but it did alter the outcome of the Battle of Hogwarts therefore causing the death of Harry Potter and allowing Lord Voldemort to overtake the wizarding world. All ends well, however, as the boys enlist the help of Harry, Ron, Ginny, Hermoine and Draco to travel back to the night Harry's parents died, Halloween 1981, to set events right and save the world. In doing so, Albus and Scorpious learned not only that Cedric had to die for the Death Eaters to be defeated, but also that their fathers weren't quite the disappointing dads that they thought them to be. I found it fascinating that the book revolved around the one part of the Harry Potter series that I had always struggled to deal with, Cedric's untimely death. It was also interesting that they introduced a love child of Voldemort and Bellatrix LeStrange. Overall, I was happy that I decided to finish the "newest" Harry Potter book. It was a fun addition to a beloved series.
Sunday, June 21, 2020
Father's Day
It was a low-key Father's Day for Doug today, but he still enjoyed it very much. For the past three years we have gone to B-Town for Taste of Bloomington, but that wasn't a possibility this summer. There have also been several Father's Days that we have dropped Cam and Meg off at camp and then took a mini-vacation ourselves.
Although we weren't able to travel this year, we did still have a wonderful day celebrating Doug. While Meg was driving back from Bloomington, Cam was playing golf and Cal was working, Doug and I were able to get in a walk and play a few games of Ticket to Ride. Everyone made it home for dinner which included chicken club sandwiches, green beans, pasta salad and grilled potatoes. Doug appreciated the gifts from the Heinisch children - oven mitts from Meg, cashews from Cam and Helter Skelter from Cal. Brett wasn't able to join us, but he made sure to call Doug and wish him a Happy Father's Day. Grandma Jane and Grandpa Cutes joined us in the evening for a bonfire. After opening his presents, Grandpa became the proud owner of an IU football t-shirt. It was close to 9:30 before they left for home and we all headed in to watch some Law & Order. It definitely may have been a quiet day, but it was a nice way to celebrate the rock of the Heinisch family. We have definitely leaned on him quite a bit these past three months.
Although we weren't able to travel this year, we did still have a wonderful day celebrating Doug. While Meg was driving back from Bloomington, Cam was playing golf and Cal was working, Doug and I were able to get in a walk and play a few games of Ticket to Ride. Everyone made it home for dinner which included chicken club sandwiches, green beans, pasta salad and grilled potatoes. Doug appreciated the gifts from the Heinisch children - oven mitts from Meg, cashews from Cam and Helter Skelter from Cal. Brett wasn't able to join us, but he made sure to call Doug and wish him a Happy Father's Day. Grandma Jane and Grandpa Cutes joined us in the evening for a bonfire. After opening his presents, Grandpa became the proud owner of an IU football t-shirt. It was close to 9:30 before they left for home and we all headed in to watch some Law & Order. It definitely may have been a quiet day, but it was a nice way to celebrate the rock of the Heinisch family. We have definitely leaned on him quite a bit these past three months.
Saturday, June 20, 2020
Weekend Get Away
Meg and Nick left for Bloomington on Thursday night after he got off of work. Meg had one assignment left in her Dylan, Elvis and Post War America to finish on Friday, but that didn't stop them as she could finish it at Brett's. It was strange to think that she hadn't been to B-Town for three months. Needless to say she and Nick were really looking forward to their weekend get away.
Brett had offered his apartment to Meg anytime she wanted to come down and was glad that she took him up on that offer. He had spent the day with Rachael and made it back from Andrew's right as Meg and Nick arrived. The three of them enjoyed catching up and watching movies together during their nights in Bloomington. During the day Meg and Nick were able to do a little shopping and order out from their favorite restaurants. They took walks on campus and toured Kirkwood. They tried to go to Nashville and check out their shops, but Meg said that it was too crowded and fewer people were wearing masks there then were in Bloomington. Other than that they had a wonderful weekend together and were even able to have lunch with Nick's brother, Jeff as well. Although I was bummed that we were still stuck in Syracuse for the weekend. I was extremely glad that Meg and Nick were able to get away.
Brett had offered his apartment to Meg anytime she wanted to come down and was glad that she took him up on that offer. He had spent the day with Rachael and made it back from Andrew's right as Meg and Nick arrived. The three of them enjoyed catching up and watching movies together during their nights in Bloomington. During the day Meg and Nick were able to do a little shopping and order out from their favorite restaurants. They took walks on campus and toured Kirkwood. They tried to go to Nashville and check out their shops, but Meg said that it was too crowded and fewer people were wearing masks there then were in Bloomington. Other than that they had a wonderful weekend together and were even able to have lunch with Nick's brother, Jeff as well. Although I was bummed that we were still stuck in Syracuse for the weekend. I was extremely glad that Meg and Nick were able to get away.
Friday, June 19, 2020
Movie Night Under the Stars
Meg and her friends had been talking about having an outside movie night this summer. Although it was a great idea, neither Meg nor her friends had a projector that would work for that purpose. Meg asked me about renting one. As she and I looked into it we realized that buying a project was a lot less expensive than we thought it would be. We decided to plead our case to Doug and see if he would let us get one for our family. He thought it was a good idea and this afternoon our new purchase arrived from Amazon.
Cameron was a big help as we learned how to use it. The directions for setting it up were in small and hard to read print, but he had no problem deciphering the steps. Soon we had Jaws playing on the wall of our living room. After finding success with the DVD player and the projector, we then used the Roku with it to watch the ending of Revenge of the Sith. We were pleased to find out that we could also see Cam's second grade picture on the big screen through the USB port. The iPhone will need a lightening cable to HDMI cord to use it, but that wasn't a problem for us tonight.
Cam, Doug and I waited until close to 9:00 to start the Empire Strikes Back. It wasn't quite dark enough to view it well at first, but by 9:30 we had Darth Vader choking one of his generals on the side of our garage. We were all impressed with how well the projector worked. It was a lot of fun sitting by the bonfire watching one of our favorite Star Wars movies. Hoping to use it again soon.
Cameron was a big help as we learned how to use it. The directions for setting it up were in small and hard to read print, but he had no problem deciphering the steps. Soon we had Jaws playing on the wall of our living room. After finding success with the DVD player and the projector, we then used the Roku with it to watch the ending of Revenge of the Sith. We were pleased to find out that we could also see Cam's second grade picture on the big screen through the USB port. The iPhone will need a lightening cable to HDMI cord to use it, but that wasn't a problem for us tonight.
Cam, Doug and I waited until close to 9:00 to start the Empire Strikes Back. It wasn't quite dark enough to view it well at first, but by 9:30 we had Darth Vader choking one of his generals on the side of our garage. We were all impressed with how well the projector worked. It was a lot of fun sitting by the bonfire watching one of our favorite Star Wars movies. Hoping to use it again soon.
Thursday, June 18, 2020
Aunt Jemima
The news over the past few weeks has changed from talk of the Coronavirus to the Black Lives Matters protests. Tensions have really heated up since the death of George Floyd by Minneapolis policemen. Parts of Seattle have been taken over by an anti-police group. In other areas of the country there have been calls to defund the police and statues of Conferderate soldiers destroyed.
Although I support the right of people to protest, I have tried to avoid the news as I have found some of the stories a little too intense for me. One article, however, did catch my eye. Due to racial stereotypes Quaker Oats decided to change the name of its Aunt Jemima pancakes. I understood the thought behind it as it represented the enslaved "Mammy" character of the south. I also realized that Quaker Oats was a company and had the right to change the name as they saw fit.
Not everyone felt the way that I did and several people took to FaceBook to voice concerns over the decision. As I read through their argument, I had to laugh. I realized that they had posted information without fact checking it first. Contrary to popular opinion the first Aunt Jemima ready made pancake mix was invented by two men in 1889. The name was chosen from a popular song on vaudeville performed by a singer in black face. The two businessmen then hired several African American woment to travel the US promoting their new product. The most popular of these women was Nancy Green. After the Chicago world's fair in 1893 she became the face of Aunt Jemima pancakes thus becoming the first live spokesperson. The stories on FaceBook claiming that she sold her secret recipe to General Mills and became the first "black" millinaire were completely false. The only truth to the claims about the "real" Aunt Jemima was that she was born into slavery in 1834.
I couldn't believe that people were defending racism with a made up story. More posts followed with talk of "remembering all of the white people that were enslaved as well." I decided at that point that I would just go back to avoiding the news. I didn't want to judge others, so I thought it would be best to take a break. As Uncle Ben's Rice, Mrs. Butterworth's syrup and Eskimo pies were all mentioned as the next brands to go through name changes, I didn't want to read anymore false information or be subjected to additional negativity. Instead I decided to just enjoy learning how to play the piano.
Although I support the right of people to protest, I have tried to avoid the news as I have found some of the stories a little too intense for me. One article, however, did catch my eye. Due to racial stereotypes Quaker Oats decided to change the name of its Aunt Jemima pancakes. I understood the thought behind it as it represented the enslaved "Mammy" character of the south. I also realized that Quaker Oats was a company and had the right to change the name as they saw fit.
Not everyone felt the way that I did and several people took to FaceBook to voice concerns over the decision. As I read through their argument, I had to laugh. I realized that they had posted information without fact checking it first. Contrary to popular opinion the first Aunt Jemima ready made pancake mix was invented by two men in 1889. The name was chosen from a popular song on vaudeville performed by a singer in black face. The two businessmen then hired several African American woment to travel the US promoting their new product. The most popular of these women was Nancy Green. After the Chicago world's fair in 1893 she became the face of Aunt Jemima pancakes thus becoming the first live spokesperson. The stories on FaceBook claiming that she sold her secret recipe to General Mills and became the first "black" millinaire were completely false. The only truth to the claims about the "real" Aunt Jemima was that she was born into slavery in 1834.
I couldn't believe that people were defending racism with a made up story. More posts followed with talk of "remembering all of the white people that were enslaved as well." I decided at that point that I would just go back to avoiding the news. I didn't want to judge others, so I thought it would be best to take a break. As Uncle Ben's Rice, Mrs. Butterworth's syrup and Eskimo pies were all mentioned as the next brands to go through name changes, I didn't want to read anymore false information or be subjected to additional negativity. Instead I decided to just enjoy learning how to play the piano.
Wednesday, June 17, 2020
Sosa vs. McGwire
Doug and I have been enjoying all of the sports documentaries that ESPN has aired in the past few months. It has been a great distraction from the fact that both professional and collegiate sports have been postponed since the end of March. Sunday night's 30 for 30 revolved around the homerun race between Sammy Sosa and Mark McGwire during the 1998 Major League Baseball season. As long time Cubs fans, my Mom, Doug and I were all glued to the television from June through September as the players chased the season homerun record of Roger Maris each trying to top his impressive 61 homers. It was a fun summer and although McGwire won in the end, we all enjoyed the thrill of the competition.
The documentary was a fun reminder of how exciting that summer of baseball really was. Baseball stadiums were packed wherever the Cubs and Cardinals played and even non-baseball fans joined in the nightly homerun total count. Shortly after that season professional baseball was surrounded by a steriod scandal that changed Americans' opinions on the record McGwire set that summer and the subsequent records that Barry Bonds set several years later. In the end none of the homerun hitters made it into the hall of fame and fans started to move away from baseball focusing on football and basketball instead. I remember how disappointing the scandal was, but in all honestly none of us were surprised. The rumors had been around for years and the build of the players had changed incredibly quickly. It only made sense that they were all using performance enhancing drugs, but in 1998 no one really cared. I wish we had something that exciting to watch this summer. The news of COVID-19 and world wide racial equality protests have been depressing to follow. A good old homerun record chase would really change everyone's mood or at least distract us for a little while.
The documentary was a fun reminder of how exciting that summer of baseball really was. Baseball stadiums were packed wherever the Cubs and Cardinals played and even non-baseball fans joined in the nightly homerun total count. Shortly after that season professional baseball was surrounded by a steriod scandal that changed Americans' opinions on the record McGwire set that summer and the subsequent records that Barry Bonds set several years later. In the end none of the homerun hitters made it into the hall of fame and fans started to move away from baseball focusing on football and basketball instead. I remember how disappointing the scandal was, but in all honestly none of us were surprised. The rumors had been around for years and the build of the players had changed incredibly quickly. It only made sense that they were all using performance enhancing drugs, but in 1998 no one really cared. I wish we had something that exciting to watch this summer. The news of COVID-19 and world wide racial equality protests have been depressing to follow. A good old homerun record chase would really change everyone's mood or at least distract us for a little while.
Tuesday, June 16, 2020
Golf Season Officially Begins
Today was the first of Cam's summer golf tournaments. He won't have as many this year because of the pandemic, so getting to play at Zollner today was important to Cameron. We changed our normal routine having Doug drop him off this morning with me meeting him after the first nine. We thought it was the easiest way to reduce exposure for Doug and I but still allow Cam to play. Indiana Juniors changed several of its policies this year as well to maintain a safe environment for the players. I was extremely impressed with how well the tournament was run. Social Distancing was enforced and the facility was extremely clean. As an added bonus, shot gun starts were eliminated this summer with groups paired in threes and tee times starting at 8 a.m. This not only stopped large gatherings in the morning, but also increased speed of play. It was the first time that I could remember finishing a tournament in four hours.
Cameron drew a 9:50 a.m. tee time. I arrived shortly before noon, just in time to see him walk off of nine green. He had been pleased with his play except for the last hole. He had hit a ball in the pond. As he didn't want to lose one of his new Bridgestones he decided to try and find it in the water. The algae around the pond was dry and Cam was able to walk out pretty far. He saw an island in the middle and thought he'd jump to it. Unfortunately, it wasn't as dry as he thought it would be and he sunk into the water up to his thighs. He could laugh about it when he saw me, but was pretty frustrated about the eight that he had on the hole. The bad news was that he didn't even find his ball.
I was impressed by how much mud he was covered in and the 44 he shot on the front even with the quadruple bogey.
It was great to walk the back nine even with all of the hills and watch Cam play. He hit the ball well and only had one bad hole - a triple on number eleven. His goal this summer was to shoot 85 or better in each of his tournaments and was able to accomplish that goal with a 41 on the back. We weren't allowed to hang around and see how everyone else finished, but by the time we were halfway home Cam was happy to announce that he had finished 8th out of 15 players. We stopped at the golf course to see Grandpa and at Grandma's home to see her as well. That way Cam could not only tell them the good news about his round, but also show them his shorts. They were glad to hear all about it. I was a little stressed going today as I have been home almost exclusively since March 19th. Overall, it went pretty well and I really enjoyed seeing Cam compete.
Cameron drew a 9:50 a.m. tee time. I arrived shortly before noon, just in time to see him walk off of nine green. He had been pleased with his play except for the last hole. He had hit a ball in the pond. As he didn't want to lose one of his new Bridgestones he decided to try and find it in the water. The algae around the pond was dry and Cam was able to walk out pretty far. He saw an island in the middle and thought he'd jump to it. Unfortunately, it wasn't as dry as he thought it would be and he sunk into the water up to his thighs. He could laugh about it when he saw me, but was pretty frustrated about the eight that he had on the hole. The bad news was that he didn't even find his ball.
I was impressed by how much mud he was covered in and the 44 he shot on the front even with the quadruple bogey.
It was great to walk the back nine even with all of the hills and watch Cam play. He hit the ball well and only had one bad hole - a triple on number eleven. His goal this summer was to shoot 85 or better in each of his tournaments and was able to accomplish that goal with a 41 on the back. We weren't allowed to hang around and see how everyone else finished, but by the time we were halfway home Cam was happy to announce that he had finished 8th out of 15 players. We stopped at the golf course to see Grandpa and at Grandma's home to see her as well. That way Cam could not only tell them the good news about his round, but also show them his shorts. They were glad to hear all about it. I was a little stressed going today as I have been home almost exclusively since March 19th. Overall, it went pretty well and I really enjoyed seeing Cam compete.
Monday, June 15, 2020
Grocery Shopping on Steriods
Meg and I waited until today to do our weekly shopping at Martin's. We liked going on Monday better than Sunday as there were less people. It also gave me more time to spend with Doug yesterday afternoon. Since we hadn't been to the store in eight days we had a lot on our list, especially in the meat and drink departments. I appreciated that Meg was willing to go with me as it took quite awhile to find everything. We did a good job today buying mostly items on sale. In the end both of our carts were completely full and our bill was $341.
Last week it bothered me that our grocery bill was over $300, but not so much this time. As Meg explained it later we are feeding a family of six (as Nick eats with us several times a week) every meal every day of the week. I have also noticed that a lot of grocery prices have increased during the pandemic. Martin's has been a lot better than New Market was, but items such as meat and produce were still higher than they were in February. As we unloaded the groceries both Meg and I hoped that we wouldn't have to go back until the end of next week.
Last week it bothered me that our grocery bill was over $300, but not so much this time. As Meg explained it later we are feeding a family of six (as Nick eats with us several times a week) every meal every day of the week. I have also noticed that a lot of grocery prices have increased during the pandemic. Martin's has been a lot better than New Market was, but items such as meat and produce were still higher than they were in February. As we unloaded the groceries both Meg and I hoped that we wouldn't have to go back until the end of next week.
Sunday, June 14, 2020
A Day at the Lake
Yesterday Nick took Meg, Cam and Millie up to Union, Michigan for a day on the lake at his Aunt and Uncle's home. Jackie met them up there since they didn't have room for her in their vehicle. The four of them had a fantastic day together lying out on the rafts, swimming, watching Millie jump in and out of the water, and tubing behind the jet ski. Meg told us that Cameron was awful at tubing which I wasn't too surprised to hear as he had told me that himself after he tried it at Camp Crosley. Both of them complained about sore arms today from holding onto the rope, but overall it was a great experience for everyone.
It was strange for Doug and I to have the house to ourselves as Cal was working while they were gone. We did have baked spaghetti ready for them when they got back to our house, so we were able to catch up on their day during dinner. It's been a long time since Cam and Meg had been able to get out and do a lot. Although it was definitely quiet here, we were glad that Nick's family was able to provide a much needed escape from their daily routine in the Heinisch home.
It was strange for Doug and I to have the house to ourselves as Cal was working while they were gone. We did have baked spaghetti ready for them when they got back to our house, so we were able to catch up on their day during dinner. It's been a long time since Cam and Meg had been able to get out and do a lot. Although it was definitely quiet here, we were glad that Nick's family was able to provide a much needed escape from their daily routine in the Heinisch home.
Saturday, June 13, 2020
Some Sacrifices Are Easier Than Others
We have had to make some changes in our normal family routine since the start of the pandemic. Thus, we only go to the grocery and CVS once a week. We order more online and spend more time at our own home visiting with friends and family outdoors. I still have not gone to the hairdresser since March and none of us our pushing for a dental cleaning right now. Even Doug agreed that we would sit out of mass until August.
The biggest change to our lives, however, has been eating out. Before COVID-19 we went out or ordered out at least three times a week. Since March 20th we have not visited a restaurant and have only ordered pizza twice and Subway four times. Doug believes that while we cannot completely eliminate all risk of exposure that we can reduce it. We have stuck with that philosophy since before the stay at home order was announced.
As Cam, Meg, Doug and I have adjusted pretty well to our new reality, it has definitley been harder for Cal. His life was drastically different than ours while he was living in Bloomington. That made sense then as he was not a high risk candidate. He has had to change, however, since he moved home. Although there is still a lot that he is able to do - have a job, play golf, hang out with his friends outside . . . there are a few things that we have asked him not to do while living at home. The first, going to the gym, we may be able to ease up on in the next few weeks as there have been safety protocols put in place at the gym and articles on how he could reduce risk while exercising. The second, however, isn't as easy. We cannot find any information about going to the bars or eating inside restaruants that does not place that as a number one high risk activity. Thus, Cal's friends are all allowed to go out, but he isn't. I know that is extremely disappointing to him. I feel bad about that, but a lot of people in our community just aren't taking the risk very seriously. Doug and I drove by the Channel Marker today and it was packed. The Frog is the main hangout for young people in our community and it is on overload. If COVID-19 cases weren't skyrocketing in Elkhart County and definitely rising in ours, Doug and I probably wouldn't mind as much. Until we see a decline or a lack of hospitalizations in our area from the deadly virus, we believe that we still have to be dilligent in keeping our home safe. Hopefully, this will start to level out soon. If not moving to Bloomington may soon be on the agenda as today it recorded zero cases.
The biggest change to our lives, however, has been eating out. Before COVID-19 we went out or ordered out at least three times a week. Since March 20th we have not visited a restaurant and have only ordered pizza twice and Subway four times. Doug believes that while we cannot completely eliminate all risk of exposure that we can reduce it. We have stuck with that philosophy since before the stay at home order was announced.
As Cam, Meg, Doug and I have adjusted pretty well to our new reality, it has definitley been harder for Cal. His life was drastically different than ours while he was living in Bloomington. That made sense then as he was not a high risk candidate. He has had to change, however, since he moved home. Although there is still a lot that he is able to do - have a job, play golf, hang out with his friends outside . . . there are a few things that we have asked him not to do while living at home. The first, going to the gym, we may be able to ease up on in the next few weeks as there have been safety protocols put in place at the gym and articles on how he could reduce risk while exercising. The second, however, isn't as easy. We cannot find any information about going to the bars or eating inside restaruants that does not place that as a number one high risk activity. Thus, Cal's friends are all allowed to go out, but he isn't. I know that is extremely disappointing to him. I feel bad about that, but a lot of people in our community just aren't taking the risk very seriously. Doug and I drove by the Channel Marker today and it was packed. The Frog is the main hangout for young people in our community and it is on overload. If COVID-19 cases weren't skyrocketing in Elkhart County and definitely rising in ours, Doug and I probably wouldn't mind as much. Until we see a decline or a lack of hospitalizations in our area from the deadly virus, we believe that we still have to be dilligent in keeping our home safe. Hopefully, this will start to level out soon. If not moving to Bloomington may soon be on the agenda as today it recorded zero cases.
Friday, June 12, 2020
A Day Off
Doug decided to take today off from work as he had caught up on everything that he wanted to accomplish earlier in the week. He also realized that we wouldn't be taking any long vacations this year, so he could use more time off this summer. Of course we didn't go anywhere, but Doug did enjoy his day. He fixed his chainsaw, chopped up wood, mowed the yard, played badminton and tennis against Cam, and made chicken on the grill. Meg was most excited about dinner as Doug had time to also make her favorite homemade pasta salad. He ended the evening with a bonfire for all of us. It was really nice to have him home. There's been a lot of press about the US going to a four day work week. I would definitely vote yes for that as I would love for Doug to have a three day weekend every week.
Thursday, June 11, 2020
Budgeting in a Pandemic
Our family budgets from June to June instead of the traditional Janaury to December timeframe. We decided a long time ago to structure our expenses that way because of school year tution due dates. It has worked for us and some years we have been better at it than others. The most expensive year of lives was from June 2018 to June 2019 with Brett and Cal in college, Meg and Cam at Bethany and both of the younger two needing braces. We also took several family trips that year including Meg's senior spring break trip to California and Brett's wish to go to Universal Studios before he finished grad school.
I do the majority of our yearly budgeting and Doug focuses on the long term financial goals. Last April he challenged me to a new monetary goal which was tighter than our previous year. I couldn't disagree with him on the reasonings behind it as we had Meg moving on to college and would need to start thinking about purchasing a vehicle for her. Thus, we tightened our belts a little bit and kept track of each purchase to see if my numbers were feasilbe. We were even able to plan a trip to Disney World for the entire familiy inside of this budget. By February we were doing very well and it looked as though we would come out well ahead of our goal.
Then the pandemic hit, and we soon found out that Doug would have to forfeit 25% of his salary due to the downturn in the economy. At first I panicked. We could put money on our home equity line, but neither of us wanted to do that. We hadn't paid all of the Disney vacation package that was due the first of June yet and still had our regular expenses to worry about. When Doug talked about the worst case scenario - losing his job, I realized that the reduction in wages was nothing compared to that. Thus, I spent a weeked in April reworking our budget, getting rid of some categories and reducing others. Everyone was on board to help cut what they spent and last night I was pleased to figure out that we actually had come out $4000 ahead of our goal this year. That was fantastic news as we look to switch over to a new budget year next Friday. Proud of everyone for stepping up. It looks as though we may even be able to buy Meg a car this fall.
Wednesday, June 10, 2020
Decisions, Decisions
The Indiana governor announced today that he will move all of the state into Phase 4 meaning that bars and theaters will be opening at 50% capacity and restaurants will be allowed to serve at 75% capacity. Social gatherings also will be allowed to move up from 100 to 250 people. All of this would sound fine to us if we lived in Bloomington as the town has been strict about following the governor's orders through the separate stages including social distancing, outdoor seating at restaurants and mask wearing. Around here it has been a different story. Although a lot of families are still "following the guidelines," many in our county and the neighboring ones have gone back to life as usual with large social events and jam packed restaurants. This has shown in the increased number of individuals testing positive for COVID-19 in Kosciusko, Elkhart and Noble counties. Health administrators in each of these areas have tried to inform the public of their risky behaviors, but the message doesn't seem to be getting through. Elkhart county has even asked the governor to keep their citizens in Phase 3 for at least another week as they sort through the numbers including the fact that their positivity rate went up 350% in the last month.
All of this information has made it challenging for Doug and I to make decisions about what to do with the family members in our house. From the very beginning I have been nervous about getting COVID-19, not becuase I think it will kill me, but because of my experience with pleurisy which is another lung inflamation disorder caused by a virus. I have had it four separate times and the last event was horrible complete with a trip to the hospital. If the coronavirus is the same or worse than pleurisy than I definitely do not want it. Thus, we will have some to give some thought as to when Cal can return to the bar life, how Cam will get to visit his friends at Bethany, when Meg should go swimming at Jackie's, how to go to mass safely or if we should partake in social events such as graduation open houses. The stress of this can be overwhelming at times. It gets harder when others throw out their opinions without understanding our thoughts. It is extremely nice, however, that Cam, Meg and Doug have been diligent from the beginning on keeping our home environment a safe one for me. Dr. Fauci said last week that this will all come to an end. I know he's right, but some days it just doesn't feel like it.
All of this information has made it challenging for Doug and I to make decisions about what to do with the family members in our house. From the very beginning I have been nervous about getting COVID-19, not becuase I think it will kill me, but because of my experience with pleurisy which is another lung inflamation disorder caused by a virus. I have had it four separate times and the last event was horrible complete with a trip to the hospital. If the coronavirus is the same or worse than pleurisy than I definitely do not want it. Thus, we will have some to give some thought as to when Cal can return to the bar life, how Cam will get to visit his friends at Bethany, when Meg should go swimming at Jackie's, how to go to mass safely or if we should partake in social events such as graduation open houses. The stress of this can be overwhelming at times. It gets harder when others throw out their opinions without understanding our thoughts. It is extremely nice, however, that Cam, Meg and Doug have been diligent from the beginning on keeping our home environment a safe one for me. Dr. Fauci said last week that this will all come to an end. I know he's right, but some days it just doesn't feel like it.
Tuesday, June 9, 2020
Piano Newbie
I decided several weeks ago that I would try my hand at learning the piano. I had always wanted to play ever since I visited the Stetlers' home in middle school listening with amazement at their ability. I had never taken lessons, but I did learn to read music when I played the tenor saxophone. Meg and Brett suggested a book for me to start with, one that really helped them when they began playing. It was pretty easy at first as I only had to work on my right hand. Once it added the left, however, I was worried that I wouldn't be able to continue.
I have continued to practice, however, and have definitely improved. I have had to ask Cameron and Meg for help on more challenging songs and I still do not like it when I have to change hand positions on the keys. Overall, I am glad that I tried to learn to play. I am almost done with the book they recommended. Meg has shown me several others to try as well, but they look pretty difficult to me. I've decided that I am not going to move on until I master "Shortin' Bread" and Musette by Bach. Those have given me the most trouble and I feel as though once I can play those two pieces well, then I will be ready to try something more challenging. Even if I never get there, it has been fun learning a new skill.
I have continued to practice, however, and have definitely improved. I have had to ask Cameron and Meg for help on more challenging songs and I still do not like it when I have to change hand positions on the keys. Overall, I am glad that I tried to learn to play. I am almost done with the book they recommended. Meg has shown me several others to try as well, but they look pretty difficult to me. I've decided that I am not going to move on until I master "Shortin' Bread" and Musette by Bach. Those have given me the most trouble and I feel as though once I can play those two pieces well, then I will be ready to try something more challenging. Even if I never get there, it has been fun learning a new skill.
Monday, June 8, 2020
Favorites
What's your favorite movie? Which Disney character do you think you are most like? Who's the best character on Law & Order? What television show do you like best? Which Harry Potter movies is your favorite? Top basketball player of all time? Those are just some of the questions that are asked in the Heinisch family on a daily basis. A lot of times these questions come with a varied amount of answers which lead to long discussions and a lot of debate on whose opinion is correct. It is always fun to listen to everyone talk and I am impressed that these rarely lead to heated arguments. I love that the Heinisch children have learned to express their own thoughts and back up their opinions through these friendly discussions. It is a skill to be able to debate without becoming angry or emotional. It has taken some of them longer than others to get to that point, but overall they have each developed their own style and have learned when it is time to "agree to disagree." I wish more families would teach this skill.
Sunday, June 7, 2020
The People vs. OJ Simpson
On saturday Cal was watching Silence of the Lambs on Netflix. As I was ready for a break, I decided to sit down and watch some of it with him. It had been years since I had seen the movie and although it was just as disturbing as ever, watching it while working on the computer in the middle of the day made it a lot easier to get through. Once the movie ended Cal started another show. I wasn't quite ready to go back outside, so I decided to watch whatever he picked for a little while. The title flashed on the screen and I was taken aback, The People vs. OJ Simpson. I thought at first that it was a documentary, but quickly realized that it was a series. I had never heard of it and was surprised with all of the big names in it. Cuba Gooding Jr was cast as "the Juice." John Travolta, David Schwimmer, and Nathan Lane all had big parts as well.
Cal and I enjoyed the series enough to watch the first three episodes. We laughed out loud at some part and were completely shocked at others. It was hard for me to explain to Cal just how big this case was in the mid 1990s. Everyone wanted to believe that OJ was innocent. The LA PD at the time was enthralled in a scandal and hit hard with accusations of racism. The LA prosecutors office was incompetent and it showed. Just as most Americans I still remember being relieved when the verdict was read. Shortly afterward, however, I realized how incredibly wrong we all were. It is so obvious to me now, but I guess at the time I just didn't want to believe that my brother's football hero was a murderer. I certainly do now and this series only validates that opinion.
Cal and I enjoyed the series enough to watch the first three episodes. We laughed out loud at some part and were completely shocked at others. It was hard for me to explain to Cal just how big this case was in the mid 1990s. Everyone wanted to believe that OJ was innocent. The LA PD at the time was enthralled in a scandal and hit hard with accusations of racism. The LA prosecutors office was incompetent and it showed. Just as most Americans I still remember being relieved when the verdict was read. Shortly afterward, however, I realized how incredibly wrong we all were. It is so obvious to me now, but I guess at the time I just didn't want to believe that my brother's football hero was a murderer. I certainly do now and this series only validates that opinion.
Saturday, June 6, 2020
End of an Era
Several weeks ago Doug went outside to take the truck on its weekly drive only to find that it wouldn't start. He wasn't too surprised as he had had that problem with it in the past. He spent a little while charging the battery much as he had before, but it was all to no avail. The Silverado just wouldn't turn over. He decided to call Stuckman's and have it towed thinking that it might need a new battery.
It took Monteith quite awhile to look at it and on Wednesday we finally got the news that we were probably most expecting. The cost to repair the Heinisch children's first vehicle was more than it would be worth. Thus, we had a tough decision to make. Keep a memory maker even though it wasn't a financially sound decision or call the salvage yard and get a price for it. Doug asked me to check with everyone and get their opinion. Cal was the only who hesitated. Cam had never wanted to drive it, and Brett and Meg were pleased to be done with it. It had served them well in high school, but it was time to say goodbye.
Thus, today Doug met Stuckman's back at Monteith to exchange the title and payment for the truck. We had already cleaned it out a few days ago, so there wasn't much else to do. I got one last picture of the truck and Meg and Jackie drove by to see it one final time. It was a little sad when I thought about it, but it was definitely the right decision.
It took Monteith quite awhile to look at it and on Wednesday we finally got the news that we were probably most expecting. The cost to repair the Heinisch children's first vehicle was more than it would be worth. Thus, we had a tough decision to make. Keep a memory maker even though it wasn't a financially sound decision or call the salvage yard and get a price for it. Doug asked me to check with everyone and get their opinion. Cal was the only who hesitated. Cam had never wanted to drive it, and Brett and Meg were pleased to be done with it. It had served them well in high school, but it was time to say goodbye.
Thus, today Doug met Stuckman's back at Monteith to exchange the title and payment for the truck. We had already cleaned it out a few days ago, so there wasn't much else to do. I got one last picture of the truck and Meg and Jackie drove by to see it one final time. It was a little sad when I thought about it, but it was definitely the right decision.
Friday, June 5, 2020
Star Wars Debates
Last night Cal and Hannah-Marie watched her favorite Star Wars movie, Attack of the Clones. While they were enjoying the film Cal texted in the family group chat that "HM said that Empire Strikes Back is forgettable." That led to immediate responses from the Heinisch family including a "Boo" from Brett and complete support for Hannah-Marie's opinion from Meg.
The part I enjoyed most from the text was the follow up conversation today about the Star Wars movies. Everyone in our family had an opinion on their favorite movie in the series and ones that fell short in their eyes. Characters were discussed as well as memories of watching the movies. I thought back to when I saw the very first Star Wars movie in the summer of 1977. As soon as I saw it I instantly became obsessed with the film buying all of the toys that I could and even receiving a set of Star Wars sheets for Christmas. It has been fun sharing something that meant so much to me in my childhood with my own children. It was the last film that my brother and I saw together. He loved it just as much as I did. I have wondered many times over the year what he would have thought about the sequels and the hype about the franchise. He at least would be able to refute Doug's claim that my favorite Star Wars character had always been C-3PO, something that Doug made up years ago that the Heinisch children have never let me forget. No matter who my favorite character was then (Luke Skywalker) or is today (Obi-Wan Kenobi), I am just thankful for the bond that the Star Wars series has created in our family.
The part I enjoyed most from the text was the follow up conversation today about the Star Wars movies. Everyone in our family had an opinion on their favorite movie in the series and ones that fell short in their eyes. Characters were discussed as well as memories of watching the movies. I thought back to when I saw the very first Star Wars movie in the summer of 1977. As soon as I saw it I instantly became obsessed with the film buying all of the toys that I could and even receiving a set of Star Wars sheets for Christmas. It has been fun sharing something that meant so much to me in my childhood with my own children. It was the last film that my brother and I saw together. He loved it just as much as I did. I have wondered many times over the year what he would have thought about the sequels and the hype about the franchise. He at least would be able to refute Doug's claim that my favorite Star Wars character had always been C-3PO, something that Doug made up years ago that the Heinisch children have never let me forget. No matter who my favorite character was then (Luke Skywalker) or is today (Obi-Wan Kenobi), I am just thankful for the bond that the Star Wars series has created in our family.
Thursday, June 4, 2020
Surprising News
Two months ago Doug called his childhood friend to check on he and his family during the nationwide pandemic. As they were catching up, Doug's friend mentioned to him that he and his wife had separated. Doug was completely taken off guard as was the rest of our family once he shared this information with him. We had been close to their family. Doug and I had both been in their wedding. He and his wife were godparents to Meg and Cam. Brett had invited their oldest daughter to his senior Prom. We were even more shocked last month when we heard that the divorce proceedings had started. After twenty-five years of marriage, we never would have thought that this would be a possibility for them. We realized, however, that it wasn't our place to judge, put blame on anyone or do anything but be supportive. A divorce during this tumultuous time had to be hard enough on their family without any of us being critical.
The situation did, however, create a lot of conversations between Doug and I about our own marriage. There have been a lot of wonderful moments in our lives together and some challenging times as well. We agreed that it has taken a lot of work to maintain a healthy relationship, but has been totally worth it. The best part of our talks has been reminiscing about the favorite memories, from when we first met to our family vacations. It hasn't always been easy, but it sure has been worth it.
The situation did, however, create a lot of conversations between Doug and I about our own marriage. There have been a lot of wonderful moments in our lives together and some challenging times as well. We agreed that it has taken a lot of work to maintain a healthy relationship, but has been totally worth it. The best part of our talks has been reminiscing about the favorite memories, from when we first met to our family vacations. It hasn't always been easy, but it sure has been worth it.
Wednesday, June 3, 2020
Rock the Vote
Yesterday was the Indiana primary, one of Brett's favorite days of the year. The primary was delayed a month this summer because of the COVID-19 pandemic, but that didn't lessen his enthusiasm for it. This year Brett was more involved in the election process than at any other time in his life. He ran for two positions in Bloomington - Precinct Committee Person for Monroe County District 10 and Delegate to the state convention. He was also asked to be a reporter for various counties in his area tracking down the count totals by phone, email and other internet sources. That kept him busy the entire evening last night and part of the morning today. As an added bonus he was paid $100 for his effort and asked to work virtually on upcoming primaries in other states as well. He was nervous when he started his task, but was thrilled to have had the experience in the end.
Brett called this afternoon to let us know the results of the Monroe County election. He missed being a delegate for the state by thirteen votes. He said that he was okay with that as it would have cost him $100 to serve. He also wasn't as excited about the position this time as the convention was to be held virtually this year due to the pandemic. Losing the precinct position was a little more disappointing as his challenger only beat him by one vote. The good news was, however, that the head of the Republican party in Monroe County had already contacted him to serve as the chairperson of district 9 since he could be appointed to that position. Brett was excited about the opportunity and glad for the chance to meet fellow Republicans starting his life in Bloomington politics. We were definitely happy for him and glad to hear that it had all gone so well. I know that when we hung up the phone that Brett was already looking forward to the November election and all the excitement that it would have to offer.
Brett called this afternoon to let us know the results of the Monroe County election. He missed being a delegate for the state by thirteen votes. He said that he was okay with that as it would have cost him $100 to serve. He also wasn't as excited about the position this time as the convention was to be held virtually this year due to the pandemic. Losing the precinct position was a little more disappointing as his challenger only beat him by one vote. The good news was, however, that the head of the Republican party in Monroe County had already contacted him to serve as the chairperson of district 9 since he could be appointed to that position. Brett was excited about the opportunity and glad for the chance to meet fellow Republicans starting his life in Bloomington politics. We were definitely happy for him and glad to hear that it had all gone so well. I know that when we hung up the phone that Brett was already looking forward to the November election and all the excitement that it would have to offer.
Tuesday, June 2, 2020
Woman in White - PBS Series
I finished the five part PBS series, Woman in White, today. It was based on the book that I read this winter written by Wilkie Collins in 1859. I picked up the book originally as it was widely regarded as one of the first mystery novels and was said to have started the genre of sensation novels. Since I had really enjoyed the book, I was very interested in seeing what the screen writers would do with it as a television series.
I was pleased with the characters of the series. They were entertaining and interesting just as they were in the novel. The plot remained relatively the same with a few minor changes that did not detract from the storyline. The most interesting difference between the novel and the television series revolved around one of the main characters. In the book, Marian was the eldest sister, protector of the family and extremely observant. In the series she had many of the same characteristics, but her most dominant trait was that of feminism. In 1859 feminism was not the same as it is today. Thus, the repeated speeches about female rights seemed out of place and did nothing to add to the story. I definitely would have left her as was written by Collins. Maybe PBS thought it would be too controversial to have her happily remain living with her newly married sister in the end, so that was why they added a trip around the world for Marian in the last scene. It didn't hurt the story, but I have never needed modern day issues to be intertwined in a televised version of a beloved book. That is probaly why I prefer the BBC adaptions of English novels the best. Either way, I was glad to have watched it and impressed that they tried to bring a wonderful 19th century novel to life.
I was pleased with the characters of the series. They were entertaining and interesting just as they were in the novel. The plot remained relatively the same with a few minor changes that did not detract from the storyline. The most interesting difference between the novel and the television series revolved around one of the main characters. In the book, Marian was the eldest sister, protector of the family and extremely observant. In the series she had many of the same characteristics, but her most dominant trait was that of feminism. In 1859 feminism was not the same as it is today. Thus, the repeated speeches about female rights seemed out of place and did nothing to add to the story. I definitely would have left her as was written by Collins. Maybe PBS thought it would be too controversial to have her happily remain living with her newly married sister in the end, so that was why they added a trip around the world for Marian in the last scene. It didn't hurt the story, but I have never needed modern day issues to be intertwined in a televised version of a beloved book. That is probaly why I prefer the BBC adaptions of English novels the best. Either way, I was glad to have watched it and impressed that they tried to bring a wonderful 19th century novel to life.
Monday, June 1, 2020
Week to Clean
Even though it usually takes me five or six hours, I normally try to clean the entire house all in one day. Although our home looks wonderful when I finish, I am typically exhausted for the next several days. Intense cleaning absolutely kills my joints, especially those in my arms. Thus, I decided to try something different this week. I split up the cleaning so that only a little bit gets done each day. Today I spent about three hours working on the bathrooms and in the end was still able to go for a walk with Meg, run Cam to the golf course, regrip Doug and Meg's tennis rackets and address Cal's thank yous for him. It was nice to accomplish so much, but the best part was that although I felt tired tonight, my arms were not in extreme pain. I was even able to work on a puzzle with Doug before calling it a night. Hopefully, I can keep to my new schedule and by Friday will have completed my to-do list while still enjoying the rest of my activities.
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