Sometimes others make decisions that have left me shaking my head and wondering why. I don't usually second guess them and only rarely ask them their thought process in making that decision. I do not believe that I know everything or understand all possible outcomes to every question asked. Thus, in general, I usually walk away from others without argument or even mentioning my differing opinion.
That changes, however, when a decision someone else makes directly effects me, especially if it takes away from what I value most - time with my family. It is hard for me to respect someone who does not understand this. As I deal with a current situation I have found myself extremely frustrated for this very reason. I do not see an easy way to resolve this problem as the person I am working with lacks organizational skills, and therefore, has made life challenging as we solve a common problem that should not even involve me. One consequence to this situation is that I no longer feel obligated to help this person which will make my life a lot less complicated.
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